Some of women get grossed out by it, some just have no clue what to do, but with a few tricks, sucking a dick can be fun!

Vibrators could be a girls (and/or a guy’s) best friend. Started out as a steam powered or hand cranked mechanism used to cure hysteria in women when doctors became too tired to continue masturbating women all day. Eventually they were in women’s magazines like Needlecraft and Women’s Home Companion, as well as the Sears & Roebuck Catalogue. Once women’s lib came around it became a symbol of the females sexual revolutions! Allowing them to gain a level of sexual awareness that they were denied before.

The use of a vibrator can be a taboo topic for some but believe it or not a little over half of all women use or have used a vibrator. Unlike the cliché of a lonely middle-aged housewife desperate for sexual attention from her husband seeking out a means for self pleasure, the type of women whom use a vibrator is quite diverse! I sell vibrators and I have sold them to young adults, women in their sexual prime, middle-aged, even elderly.

I believe that every women needs a vibrator in their life. Masturbation is the key to sexual self-awareness which is key to communication which is THE most important part of a satisfying healthy sex life. A woman needs to know what she likes and dislikes where feels good and where does not. Then they need to be able to tell their partner. A vibrator is a great tool for independent masturbation or even as foreplay. All partners should use a vibrator in the bedroom. Makes the sexual experience more exciting and reaches an orgasm more easily. Some women never get to feel an orgasm but playing a little while with a vibrator, she will learn real quick what it feels like! It makes foreplay more exhilarating for women and for men they can give her more intense please and a lot easier. Using it in the bedroom is a win-win situation. Sometimes men fear that the vibrator is replacing them or using one will make them seem like less of a man but you know what, REAL men want their woman to feel good and would welcome a toy in the bedroom. It does not make the actual act of penetration any less effective it makes it more effective. All you need is penetration, a vibrator and some friction between bodies and she will be uncontrollably screaming!

There are 5 types of vibrators and I have them all! The first type is the most common. It’s a clitoral stimulator. You may have seen them as a wand or a bullet. I have and sell one from Pure Romance called Opening Act. It’s a long handheld silicone, waterproof, rechargeable vibrator with a curvaceous handle and feels amazing being used independently or pressed between two bodies rubbing against the clit with penetration.

The second type of vibrator is the vaginal vibrator. This type of vibrator is penetrated into the pussy. This one is meant to hit the g-spot and/ or even reach the cervix for a cervical orgasm. They come in a range of shapes, lengths and girths. My favorite one is called Butterfly Effect. This one is actually a panty vibrator. It’s inserted in the vagina then panties are put on to hold it in place. It comes with a wireless remote control that can be used by yourself or given to someone else! This vibrator even has a small little clitoral tease with it. There is even a double penetration vibrator where two women can use it similar to a strap on only with a vibrator penetrating both women.

The third type is called a Rabbit or dual action vibrator. This little gem is my favorite type of vibrator. This type of vibrator has two parts, one for vaginal penetration and one for clitoral stimulation. It almost has the shape of rabbit ears which is why it’s called a rabbit vibrator. My favorite rabbit of all time is called Main Attraction by Pure Romance. Also silicone, waterproof and rechargeable. It’s shape is a little unique but it was actually created by an Ob/GYn to guarantee to hit the g-spot.

The fourth type of vibrator is the cock ring or c-ring. Mine is called Get in Touch. This type of vibrator is used for couple play. It has a ring that goes around the base of the penis, some with a vibrator attached above the c-ring to stimulate the female clit and some have a vibrator attached at the bottom that can secure behind the balls and vibrate against the man’s g-spot right outside of his prostate. C-rings are extra special for him because not only does it vibrate, the ring constricts blood flood making it harder and last longer.

The final type of vibrator is an anal vibrator. I have vibrating anal beads called Backstage Pass which gradually increases in size and intensity. The beads are not bulky so if you are interested in starting ass play but are still afraid of a full penis penetrating, it’s a great start!

Vibrators can be fun for him and her. They do not take away from someone’s sex life it should enhance it. No other orgasm in this world can compare to a vibrator orgasm and trust me when I say, especially when you first get one, reaching an orgasm should be very easy.

The female orgasm takes a lot of work. Way more than men think. Only 25% of women are able to orgasm through vaginal penetration alone so men/women, you gotta do a little more work to make your woman cum! 

Did you know there are 13 different types of orgasms? 

The first type is the easiest type and at times the most ignored. It is the clitoral orgasm. This requires actually being able to find the clit lol. It’s a little bulbous feeling and looking thing slightly above the vagina. Unless aroused it’s usually hiding behind skin. Once you found the clit you need to give it some attention in order to stimulate so you can get it erect just like a penis gets erect. You can rub it with your fingers, lick it, suck it, use a vibrator, etc. Not all women feel the pleasure in the exact same spot either. Some like it right in the center of the clit, some like it to the one side and others to the other side. Some like a little above the clit and others a little below. Also, the sweet spot may move so keep open communication with your women so she can tell you when and where to move. Did you know there are vibrators that have been created specifically for the clit. These vibrators can be used alone or with a partner. ...People, don’t feel like you aren’t good enough for your woman when using a vibrator it’s meant to enhance pleasure for both of you not replace you! 

The second type of orgasm is the vaginal/g-spot orgasm. This one is a little more difficult. You think the clit is hard to find, the g-spot can be even harder. The best way to find the g-spot is to stick your fingers in in the vagina only like one to three inches. It’s a soft fleshy area like a half inch or so above the urethra. It is a fleshy bean shaped area right behind the pubic bone. The best way to get a g-spot orgasm is to curve your finger forward and massage the g-spot by wiggling the hooked finger up and down as if you are telling someone to come here or to make it easier there are vibrators that specifically target the g-spot for example there are special vibrators that are perfectly shaped to massage the g-spot. 

The third type of orgasm is the full body orgasm. This can be reached by a technique called sensate focus. This can be very sensual and cause great orgasms but are a little challenging to reach. It involves gently touching erogenous  zones like lips, neck, décolletage, lower stomach and thighs but you cannot touch the genitals. Other ways to use sensate focus is your breath, feathers or other soft objects. 

The fourth type of orgasm is a nipple orgasm. This is done through fondling, licking, sucking and massaging the nipples to release oxytocin, the same chemical released during sex. Starts with feather like touching and massaging around your breasts then once you are fully turned on, circle around the areolae and circle closer and closer in then pinch, rub, flick and/or squeeze your nipples between your thumb and pointer finger. Keep this up until orgasm is reached. 

The fifth type of orgasm is deep vaginal penetration/ cervical orgasm. This type of orgasm has a tendency to be felt all over your body. The best way to have this type of orgasm is through positions like the cowgirl, doggy style and by getting your legs in the air. These positions allow maximum penetration which is exactly what you need to feel this type of orgasm that completely takes over your body!

The sixth type of orgasm is the anal orgasm. Even if there isn’t full penetration a female can orgasm with anal sex since the majority of the nerve endings are in the first inch of her asshole. Did you know the ass is considered one of the most erogenous zones. 

The seventh and eight types of orgasms can be pretty surprising. Did you know a woman can orgasm in her sleep just like a man can have wet dreams. Yup it’s true. Your mind is free to explore its sexual fantasies and they can get intense enough to cum. Then a core-gasm or exercise induced orgasm happens when you are working your core muscles and the workout gets so intense it leads to the big O.

The ninth type of orgasm is the blended orgasm. This is happens when more than one area is being stimulated at once. Here’s a good example, your riding your partner. He is kissing your neck and décolletage,  rubbing your ass and your thighs. You positions yourself up and down between full cervical penetration and adjusting your hips to hit the g-spot, all while using a vibrator to stimulate your clit. The full blown orgasm you will feel from all of this intense pleasure is considered a blended orgasm. 

The tenth type of orgasm is the squirting orgasm. There’s a lot of controversy about this, some say it’s just a chick peeing a little while orgasming but science proves that’s not actually true. According to healthline.com it’s actually a “combination of urea, uric acid, and creatinine released by the Skene’s gland, which sits at the lower end of the urethra.” It tends to happen more when the g-spot and clit are being stimulated at the same time. A great toy for that is rabbit vibrator (look it up) best ever is from Pure Romance called the Main Attraction, guaranteed to hit the clit and the g-spot.

The last three orgasm focuses mostly on how they make you feel. The eleventh type of orgasm I like to call the Explosion. The pleasure intensifies more and more like going up the tracks on a rollercoaster until BOOM you feel one big explosion. The only thing with the explosion orgasm is that it ends pretty quickly. It get so intense that you completely lose control then instantly starts to descend. The twelfth type of orgasm is multiple orgasms. With multiple orgasms your orgasms either have periods of rest in between or just occur one immediately after the other...the intensity builds up and up then BOOM, then you descend just a little but then BOOM again, down a little then BOOM again, you get the picture. Do you know the most orgasms a single woman has had during one hour long fuck is 134 orgasms. Finally, the thirteenth type is ESR or Expanded Sexual Response Orgasm. This type is very similar to multiple orgasms only there is no descending or gap in between. It is just one long nonstop orgasm. The longest orgasm on record was almost a minute long! Can you imagine! 

Now that you know the types , here’s is a little about stages. There are 4 stages of an orgasm. Excitement, plateau, orgasm then resolution. During the excitement stage arousal builds up. Pleasure gets more and more intense. During the plateau stage the pleasure levels out (some women get stuck in this stage). It when your body feels like it just can’t take the arousal anymore then BOOM the orgasm stage. This is when your body loses control, your clit and lips throb, your whole body tingles, your adrenaline gets pumping; you get an intense feeling of pleasure. Finally, comes the resolution stage. This is when the adrenaline and arousal starts to descend and eventually diminishes. (During the ESR type and even the multiple orgasm type this stage is delayed or skipped a few times.) 

The Big “O”. We want it, we need it. Now you know all about it! 

If you are interested in learning about the vibrator that I mentioned or more like it you can visit the website www.pureromance.com/shannonkruse

Are you looking for maximum penetration. Sure you can do the cowgirl or reverse cowgirl, but what about getting him on top? There are so many ways you can play with your legs in the air and take it from someone who has been basically all sizes anyone can do it. 

There is always your basic legs up position. He kneels on the bed, you put your legs directly on his shoulders, you bend your knees a little. You place your hands on the back of your thighs either right above the knee or towards your ass. He pushes his palms or fists on the bed right outside of your legs. Then he thrusts it in you. He can lean in as much as he can, (sometimes he can even go low enough to kiss you). You can put your arms around his neck. It feels amazing if he starts out slow, almost completely pulling out and pushing it all the way in so you can feel every inch of him then surprise you by pounding it in you hard. Trust me that will make you moan. If you want to get a little sexier you can grab your tits and try to push them to your lips and suck on them or bite them a little. It will drive him wild! If you want to get really creative cross your legs and put each leg on the opposite shoulder. The pressure between your legs will make it feel tighter for him and for you, in the best way possible.

 If your legs can’t go all the way to his shoulders (or even if they can) have him put his hands between your legs with palms up against the bed or on the back of your thighs right above your knee. Place your legs over his biceps and your hands either right on top of his or under his. 

As he pushes in and out of you make sure you match his rhythm. The more you move along with him the better it will feel for both of you. Try sitting up a little, kinda like you are doing a crunch and feel that deep penetration. Look into each other eyes as you both move slowly, the passion will be more intense. Then quicken the pace, have him shove it inside of you as deep as possible then quickly out again, if you get into a perfect rhythm you can almost hear a suction between your bodies or at least a smacking sound. 

You can also try this with your ass to the edge of the bed/couch/ table/ etc. Havr him stand with his knees slightly bent to meet up to your wet pussy. To shake it up a bit and give you an incredibly deep penetration he can put his hands on your ankles and lift your legs up and down while grinding up against you. 

Maybe try spread eagle with your hands as close to your ankles as possible and his hands on your ankles. Try pressing your knees up against his chest with his hands on your ass shoving his cock inside of you. Try wrapping your hands around your calves, reaching around your leg from the inside out so that your finger tips are placed on the outside of your calves. Another thing you can do is put your legs up and wrap your arms around his forearm as his hands are pressed up against the bed. Put one leg up and the other leg down. Put your hands against the wall or backboard, hold your tits, have him pin your arms to the bed by your forearm or wrap your arms around his inner arm with finger tips out. 

There are so many things that you can do with your legs and even more that you can do with your hands, but no matter how you have your hands or legs, you will definitely feel that deep penetration. 

What do you think about masturbating? How common do you think masturbation is? According to WebMD 95% of males and 89% of females have touched themselves at least once in their lives. According to Psychology Today 61% of men and 38% of women do it regularly. Masturbation at its most basic form is touching, rubbing or massaging of your own dick or clit but it could also include insertion using toys or random household items. It could even involve just touching your own erogenous zones like rubbing/licking your tits or playing with your nipples. Other erogenous zones you can try out are the lower stomach from right below the belly button down to the pubic bone, neck, the small of the back, ears, scalp, back of knees, even feet if you are into that.