The female orgasm takes a lot of work. Way more than men think. Only 25% of women are able to orgasm through vaginal penetration alone so men/women, you gotta do a little more work to make your woman cum! 

Did you know there are 13 different types of orgasms? 

The first type is the easiest type and at times the most ignored. It is the clitoral orgasm. This requires actually being able to find the clit lol. It’s a little bulbous feeling and looking thing slightly above the vagina. Unless aroused it’s usually hiding behind skin. Once you found the clit you need to give it some attention in order to stimulate so you can get it erect just like a penis gets erect. You can rub it with your fingers, lick it, suck it, use a vibrator, etc. Not all women feel the pleasure in the exact same spot either. Some like it right in the center of the clit, some like it to the one side and others to the other side. Some like a little above the clit and others a little below. Also, the sweet spot may move so keep open communication with your women so she can tell you when and where to move. Did you know there are vibrators that have been created specifically for the clit. These vibrators can be used alone or with a partner. ...People, don’t feel like you aren’t good enough for your woman when using a vibrator it’s meant to enhance pleasure for both of you not replace you! 

The second type of orgasm is the vaginal/g-spot orgasm. This one is a little more difficult. You think the clit is hard to find, the g-spot can be even harder. The best way to find the g-spot is to stick your fingers in in the vagina only like one to three inches. It’s a soft fleshy area like a half inch or so above the urethra. It is a fleshy bean shaped area right behind the pubic bone. The best way to get a g-spot orgasm is to curve your finger forward and massage the g-spot by wiggling the hooked finger up and down as if you are telling someone to come here or to make it easier there are vibrators that specifically target the g-spot for example there are special vibrators that are perfectly shaped to massage the g-spot. 

The third type of orgasm is the full body orgasm. This can be reached by a technique called sensate focus. This can be very sensual and cause great orgasms but are a little challenging to reach. It involves gently touching erogenous  zones like lips, neck, décolletage, lower stomach and thighs but you cannot touch the genitals. Other ways to use sensate focus is your breath, feathers or other soft objects. 

The fourth type of orgasm is a nipple orgasm. This is done through fondling, licking, sucking and massaging the nipples to release oxytocin, the same chemical released during sex. Starts with feather like touching and massaging around your breasts then once you are fully turned on, circle around the areolae and circle closer and closer in then pinch, rub, flick and/or squeeze your nipples between your thumb and pointer finger. Keep this up until orgasm is reached. 

The fifth type of orgasm is deep vaginal penetration/ cervical orgasm. This type of orgasm has a tendency to be felt all over your body. The best way to have this type of orgasm is through positions like the cowgirl, doggy style and by getting your legs in the air. These positions allow maximum penetration which is exactly what you need to feel this type of orgasm that completely takes over your body!

The sixth type of orgasm is the anal orgasm. Even if there isn’t full penetration a female can orgasm with anal sex since the majority of the nerve endings are in the first inch of her asshole. Did you know the ass is considered one of the most erogenous zones. 

The seventh and eight types of orgasms can be pretty surprising. Did you know a woman can orgasm in her sleep just like a man can have wet dreams. Yup it’s true. Your mind is free to explore its sexual fantasies and they can get intense enough to cum. Then a core-gasm or exercise induced orgasm happens when you are working your core muscles and the workout gets so intense it leads to the big O.

The ninth type of orgasm is the blended orgasm. This is happens when more than one area is being stimulated at once. Here’s a good example, your riding your partner. He is kissing your neck and décolletage,  rubbing your ass and your thighs. You positions yourself up and down between full cervical penetration and adjusting your hips to hit the g-spot, all while using a vibrator to stimulate your clit. The full blown orgasm you will feel from all of this intense pleasure is considered a blended orgasm. 

The tenth type of orgasm is the squirting orgasm. There’s a lot of controversy about this, some say it’s just a chick peeing a little while orgasming but science proves that’s not actually true. According to healthline.com it’s actually a “combination of urea, uric acid, and creatinine released by the Skene’s gland, which sits at the lower end of the urethra.” It tends to happen more when the g-spot and clit are being stimulated at the same time. A great toy for that is rabbit vibrator (look it up) best ever is from Pure Romance called the Main Attraction, guaranteed to hit the clit and the g-spot.

The last three orgasm focuses mostly on how they make you feel. The eleventh type of orgasm I like to call the Explosion. The pleasure intensifies more and more like going up the tracks on a rollercoaster until BOOM you feel one big explosion. The only thing with the explosion orgasm is that it ends pretty quickly. It get so intense that you completely lose control then instantly starts to descend. The twelfth type of orgasm is multiple orgasms. With multiple orgasms your orgasms either have periods of rest in between or just occur one immediately after the other...the intensity builds up and up then BOOM, then you descend just a little but then BOOM again, down a little then BOOM again, you get the picture. Do you know the most orgasms a single woman has had during one hour long fuck is 134 orgasms. Finally, the thirteenth type is ESR or Expanded Sexual Response Orgasm. This type is very similar to multiple orgasms only there is no descending or gap in between. It is just one long nonstop orgasm. The longest orgasm on record was almost a minute long! Can you imagine! 

Now that you know the types , here’s is a little about stages. There are 4 stages of an orgasm. Excitement, plateau, orgasm then resolution. During the excitement stage arousal builds up. Pleasure gets more and more intense. During the plateau stage the pleasure levels out (some women get stuck in this stage). It when your body feels like it just can’t take the arousal anymore then BOOM the orgasm stage. This is when your body loses control, your clit and lips throb, your whole body tingles, your adrenaline gets pumping; you get an intense feeling of pleasure. Finally, comes the resolution stage. This is when the adrenaline and arousal starts to descend and eventually diminishes. (During the ESR type and even the multiple orgasm type this stage is delayed or skipped a few times.) 

The Big “O”. We want it, we need it. Now you know all about it! 

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