Vibrators could be a girls (and/or a guy’s) best friend. Started out as a steam powered or hand cranked mechanism used to cure hysteria in women when doctors became too tired to continue masturbating women all day. Eventually they were in women’s magazines like Needlecraft and Women’s Home Companion, as well as the Sears & Roebuck Catalogue. Once women’s lib came around it became a symbol of the females sexual revolutions! Allowing them to gain a level of sexual awareness that they were denied before.

The use of a vibrator can be a taboo topic for some but believe it or not a little over half of all women use or have used a vibrator. Unlike the cliché of a lonely middle-aged housewife desperate for sexual attention from her husband seeking out a means for self pleasure, the type of women whom use a vibrator is quite diverse! I sell vibrators and I have sold them to young adults, women in their sexual prime, middle-aged, even elderly.

I believe that every women needs a vibrator in their life. Masturbation is the key to sexual self-awareness which is key to communication which is THE most important part of a satisfying healthy sex life. A woman needs to know what she likes and dislikes where feels good and where does not. Then they need to be able to tell their partner. A vibrator is a great tool for independent masturbation or even as foreplay. All partners should use a vibrator in the bedroom. Makes the sexual experience more exciting and reaches an orgasm more easily. Some women never get to feel an orgasm but playing a little while with a vibrator, she will learn real quick what it feels like! It makes foreplay more exhilarating for women and for men they can give her more intense please and a lot easier. Using it in the bedroom is a win-win situation. Sometimes men fear that the vibrator is replacing them or using one will make them seem like less of a man but you know what, REAL men want their woman to feel good and would welcome a toy in the bedroom. It does not make the actual act of penetration any less effective it makes it more effective. All you need is penetration, a vibrator and some friction between bodies and she will be uncontrollably screaming!

There are 5 types of vibrators and I have them all! The first type is the most common. It’s a clitoral stimulator. You may have seen them as a wand or a bullet. I have and sell one from Pure Romance called Opening Act. It’s a long handheld silicone, waterproof, rechargeable vibrator with a curvaceous handle and feels amazing being used independently or pressed between two bodies rubbing against the clit with penetration.

The second type of vibrator is the vaginal vibrator. This type of vibrator is penetrated into the pussy. This one is meant to hit the g-spot and/ or even reach the cervix for a cervical orgasm. They come in a range of shapes, lengths and girths. My favorite one is called Butterfly Effect. This one is actually a panty vibrator. It’s inserted in the vagina then panties are put on to hold it in place. It comes with a wireless remote control that can be used by yourself or given to someone else! This vibrator even has a small little clitoral tease with it. There is even a double penetration vibrator where two women can use it similar to a strap on only with a vibrator penetrating both women.

The third type is called a Rabbit or dual action vibrator. This little gem is my favorite type of vibrator. This type of vibrator has two parts, one for vaginal penetration and one for clitoral stimulation. It almost has the shape of rabbit ears which is why it’s called a rabbit vibrator. My favorite rabbit of all time is called Main Attraction by Pure Romance. Also silicone, waterproof and rechargeable. It’s shape is a little unique but it was actually created by an Ob/GYn to guarantee to hit the g-spot.

The fourth type of vibrator is the cock ring or c-ring. Mine is called Get in Touch. This type of vibrator is used for couple play. It has a ring that goes around the base of the penis, some with a vibrator attached above the c-ring to stimulate the female clit and some have a vibrator attached at the bottom that can secure behind the balls and vibrate against the man’s g-spot right outside of his prostate. C-rings are extra special for him because not only does it vibrate, the ring constricts blood flood making it harder and last longer.

The final type of vibrator is an anal vibrator. I have vibrating anal beads called Backstage Pass which gradually increases in size and intensity. The beads are not bulky so if you are interested in starting ass play but are still afraid of a full penis penetrating, it’s a great start!

Vibrators can be fun for him and her. They do not take away from someone’s sex life it should enhance it. No other orgasm in this world can compare to a vibrator orgasm and trust me when I say, especially when you first get one, reaching an orgasm should be very easy.