You start around the vaginal opening. Lick around the entire opening right at the edge. Then move your tongue up to the top of the opening, tighten your tongue then lick upwards toward the front of her body until you come to a fold with a harder bulb behind it. (The bulb will grow the more aroused she is so if the bulb is bulging you are getting the job done.)

Loosen your tongue a little and gently play with that flap, as it starts to bulge more you can get a little rougher. Then once you feel her thighs start to tighten, move in to the top center of the bulge and flick your tongue in. Loosen your tongue and lick the bulge gently then get your tongue increasingly tighter.

As she starts squirming, tighten you tongue and lick the very center of the bulge. You can start your tongue as tight as you can. If she jumps it means your tongue is too tight so loosen your tongue a little and lick then wait for a second reaction. If she jumps again loosen your tongue a little again until it goes back to squirming and hopefully morning,

Eventually you want to start going around the clit. Start by circling the clit right where it meets loose skin, once again as tight or loose as she wants. As far as the licking and circling, play with your speed and at any points, alternate back and forth.  As she is squirming and making noise or is just breathing heavily and grabbing onto you, whether it be your shoulders, shirt, hair, chest, waist, etc., stick your fingers in her vagina hook the tip of your finger upward til you feel a wall with tight skin. Stroke that tight skin or move your finger in and out. Go as deep or as far back as she likes it. If it’s too deep she will most likely jump. Some like it all the way back to their cervix. Her responses will let you know.

While you are fingering continue licking the clit. Keep moving your tongue and tighten it a little more than before, then lick the sides of the clit over the tightened skin, right at the ends of the bulb. You will most likely notice, she may prefer one side over the other. It’s okay to move from side to side but focus more on her preferred side. Judge her preference by her sounds, tightness of her legs and body or just sound/feeling of her breath. She is more likely to be louder or moaning more frequently, she is likely tight legged/body, and panting harder than at other positions. Either ask your partner or pay close attention to these responses.

Alternate your positions, speeds and tightness of the tongue but not too quickly because you will start to lose her arousal if you are focusing on one area that she likes then quickly jump somewhere else or do something else. You may also want to try sucking on the clit but not too hard or as hard as she wants, lick the tip of that clit as you suck for a little more action. Some may like it, others may not.

As she gets closer to an orgasm which is when her clit is at its hardest/largest. Her panting is at its heaviest and the sounds and squirms are at their best, lick a little closer to the sides of the clit not the very center because it may start to hurt her and you will lose her arousal. She is at her most sensitive at this point. Another option is to loosen the tongue a little as you lick and circle. Don’t do both at the same time though because she may start to feel nothing. As she orgasms she may squirt, she may cream, she may not, but she will be at her wettest. As you lift up, you may want to grab her tits and give them a little squeeze. You have successfully gave her an orgasm by eating her pussy.