No two women are the

same. We all have our

unique needs and

desires. Open 

communication and

exploration is key. Don’t

ever think that because you know how to pleasure one woman

you know how to pleasure all women. Talk to her see what she

likes and if she doesn’t know, play with her...her entire body.

Find her sweet spots. 

 

Some women need body stimulation. Run your hands through her

hair. Kiss her neck. Suck on her ear lobe. Trace your fingers all

along the curves of her body, down her neck, across the

décolletage, up and down her arms. Gently at first. Then maybe

get a little rougher, rubbing her body with your whole hand. Grab

her waist, pull her close to you. As you remove her clothing put

pressure on her every curve. Press your entire body on top of

hers. Some women love to feel the pressure. Use your tongue to

trace her body. Down and around the neck, down between the tits.

Lower to her stomach then even lower. Tease her a bit. Stop right

above the pelvic bone and move your tongue back up.

 

Other women need breast stimulation. Grab her tits. Rub them.

Gently twist and flick the nipples. Kiss her breasts. Suck on them.

Suck on her nipples. Play with her nips between your lips and with

your tongue. You may even want B to nibble a little. Sometimes a

little pain equals pleasure. Get your whole face in there. Smother

yourself in them. You may even be able to play with those tits

til she cums. 

 

For some women body and breasts aren’t enough they need

stimulation even lower. Now move your way down to her

genitals. I am not talking just the vagina. There’s four erogenous

zones in the female genitalia. The lips, the clit, the g-spot and the

cervix. Try them all. First the lips. Run your finger across the outer

lips. Then the inner ones. Trace them with your tongue. Suck on

them. Gently rub your teeth along them. This may not necessarily

be enough to make her cum but its a good way to make her wet.

Then try the clit. This is probably the most commonly ignored, but

also the most likely way to make her cum. The trick is finding the

clit. If she isn’t aroused enough this could be tricky. It may be

hiding under a blanket of skin. If you don’t know where to find it,

(surprising enough many people don’t know) it’s between the lips

and above the vaginal opening. As a woman gets turned on it gets

hard like a man’s cock gets hard. It starts bulging through the

blanket of skin. Try to use your fingers to play with the clit, even

better try your tongue, suck on it. Put pressure on it with your

tongue or your fingers. Hold it between your two fingers and rub it.

Try rubbing or licking the sides of it. Some women are too

sensitive right on the clit and need the stimulation to the side.

Some prefer the left side others the right. Don’t sway too far from

the clit because her sensations may fade the further away you go.

Figuring out the right spot is like finding a combination to a lock

that unlocks ecstasy. 

 

For some women the clit is not enough. They also need

stimulation of the g-spot.  If you stick your fingers inside of

her and curl your finger forward almost as if you are telling

someone to come here, you will find a soft spongy area right

near the urethral opening. That there is the g-spot and it can

be as elusive as the clit because you have to hit it at just the

right spot. Playing with the clit and g-spot together is even

better than just one or the other. That’s why I recommend a

rabbit vibrator. It is such a great toy to have. It pleasures both

zones at the same time. However, you don’t need a rabbit to

get both zones, you can either use both hands, one with

fingers in and one using fingers on the clit or you can use your

fingers in and tongue on her clit. 

 

Finally, inside the woman there’s the cervix. Some women need

deep penetration to feel the most pleasure or even to cum.

Obviously if you have a dick, use it! But you don’t need a dick to

stimulate the cervix that’s what we have fingers for. Put your penis

or your fingers all the way in (up then towards the front a little)

until you can’t go anymore. That firm bulbous thing you feel is the

cervix and pressure there can drive a women crazy. However, like

the title says it’s all about finding the right combination for each

woman. Some women find this painful. That is why communication

and exploration is so important. 

 

Last, but not least, the final pleasure zone for a woman may be

the anus. Start out by smacking that ass.  Possibly try penetration.

If you are using fingers gently push them towards the vagina.

There you will hit the A-spot. A very sensitive spot between the

anus and the vagina filled with a ton of nerve endings. Gets a

woman wet, fast! Start out slow and always use lube. Then maybe

have some real fun with it. Try some vibrating anal beads. If you

want to penetrate with the dick, make sure to be gentle at first,

definitely use a lot of lube. They even sell a product that minimizes

the pain and maximizes the pleasure at Pure Romance called

Booty Ease. They even have a product to train your asshole to

accept larger and larger so you can ease into it even further. 

 

Finding the right spots to make your woman scream is like opening